I can see clearly now…!

Hello gorgeous,

I am not talking about a new pair of glasses (although it feels like I need one!).

Nor I am talking about this song from Jimmy Cliff 😉

I am talking about having absolute clarity on what it is you desire! And about what it can do for you…

As entrepreneurs, we are often prompted to define who are our ideal customers, what do we want to create as a business, etc….

When working in a company, we are also prompted to think in terms of career progression, what do we want to do next etc.

But I want here to talk about what do we want as human beings. Do you always have that absolute clarity? Well, I don’t! But recently I went through an exercise that I want to share with you, hoping it will inspire you! I was busy doing an online course I had bought, and there was this exercise: “Be Do Have”, which I had to complete. The way it works is: take an A4 piece of paper, put it horizontal (landscape), and make 3 columns (for Be, Do and Have!). Decide of a deadline by which you want your desires to come true (generally, 6 months to 1 year). Then write in each column a list of items you wish to come true. Let me give you a few examples:

BE: fit, healthy, happy, a loving mother, a published writer…

DO: coach x number of clients per month, get a facial once a month, meditate 3 times a week, write 30’ every day…

HAVE: another car to replace my old one, a cleaning lady 3h every week, holidays planned for next month…

So you get the picture, right? My next advice is for you to tell at least one person about it, and maybe to get this person to do it as well, so that you can inspire each other. I got 2 girlfriends to do it with me (thanks ladies!!!) and I added items to my lists every time! I now have 13 to 15 items in each column…

But it does not stop there… By now you all heard about how to manifest your desires, and how you need to feel, and project yourself into the situation where you have what you want… So, in order to get there, my last step is to journal a few minutes per day on at least one of the items on my list. I was already journaling at least 6’ a day, so I decided to journal specifically on my list instead of randomly. So I started writing about those items (randomly picked or not) and about how it feels (on the present tense of course!) to be, do or have those things I desire. Now time will tell if I can manifest my whole list within 6 months ;-), but what counts now is the enjoyment I have when I am busy with this exercise. And at the end of the day, it’s all about feeling good, right? So why not give it a try? And let me know how it works for you, OK?

Just a little caveat here ;-), I know – and you do to! – that you still need to work on those desires, right? Because: Dreams don’t work unless you do!


I wish you a wonderful week!

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